Book Review: “How Women Rise” by Sally Helgesen and Marshall Goldsmith


Empowering Behavioral Shifts for Lionhearted Leaders

At Lionhearted Leader, we honor the intelligence, strength, and creativity women already bring to their work. How Women Rise by Sally Helgesen and Marshall Goldsmith offers a practical, compassionate roadmap for transforming leadership habits that may no longer serve one’s highest potential. Rather than suggesting that women must change to succeed, the book invites reflection on how to harness existing strengths with greater clarity and intention.

Celebrating What Works and Building Forward

The book is rooted in the belief that many leadership behaviors that help women build strong careers—collaboration, humility, conscientiousness—are powerful assets. However, the authors also explore how, when over-relied upon or left unexamined, some habits may unintentionally limit visibility, influence, or strategic focus.

Instead of framing these traits as liabilities, Helgesen and Goldsmith emphasize that awareness is power. By bringing these patterns to light, the book empowers women to make conscious choices aligned with their goals and values.

The 12 Habits with Leadership Potential

  1. Reluctance to Claim Achievements
  2. Expecting Work to Speak for Itself
  3. Overvaluing Expertise
  4. Building Rather Than Leveraging Relationships
  5. Not Enlisting Allies from Day One
  6. Prioritizing the Job Over the Career
  7. Perfectionism
  8. The Urge to Please
  9. Minimizing Presence
  10. Over-Explaining
  11. Ruminating on Past Events
  12. Getting Derailed by Distractions

Each habit is examined with empathy, and readers are invited to consider where they might reclaim their voice, energy, and authority.

Tools for Self-Directed Growth

Rather than proposing a “fix,” the authors offer strategies for refining leadership style:

  • Insightful self-reflection tools
  • Empowering language and communication techniques
  • Guidance on asking for support and visibility
  • Ways to stay grounded in values while expanding influence

This is not about changing who you are; it’s about standing more fully in your power.

Acknowledging Systems, Elevating Agency

While How Women Rise focuses on individual agency, it doesn’t ignore the reality of gender bias or unequal systems. Instead, it encourages women to recognize the habits they can shift while holding space for broader cultural change.

This dual perspective is both realistic and hopeful: you don’t have to wait for permission to lead boldly.

Community and Connection

One of the book’s most validating contributions is its ability to spark recognition: “Yes, I’ve felt that.” That shared experience is grounding, and the authors advocate for women supporting one another in stepping into greater visibility, clarity, and purpose.

Insights for All Leaders

Though focused on women, these lessons have universal relevance. Leaders of all genders will benefit from reflecting on how unconscious habits shape their professional impact. For mentors and allies, this book is a valuable resource for encouraging inclusive, growth-oriented leadership.

Practical for a Changing World

In today’s evolving workplaces, whether corporate, remote, or entrepreneurial, the book’s guidance remains grounded and actionable. The habits explored speak to timeless truths about boundaries, confidence, and self-advocacy in complex environments.

Final Reflection: Redefining Leadership on Your Terms

Helgesen and Goldsmith don’t ask women to abandon their strengths—they invite them to sharpen their tools. How Women Rise empowers readers to step more fully into their leadership potential by aligning everyday actions with long-term purpose.

At Lionhearted Leader, we see this book as a call to lead from authenticity, with the courage to evolve, not to meet an impossible standard, but to claim a leadership path defined on your own terms.

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